For the first time in a while, my calendar actually had space to meet a friend for lunch. And let me tell you—it was so tempting to fill that space with work-related tasks instead. After all, the to-do list never really ends, does it? But I didn’t. I said yes to connection, yes to slowing down, and yes to something that fills my cup in a completely different way.
And you know what? It felt amazing.
It’s not always easy to prioritize the things that don’t feel “productive” on paper. But during this holiday season, I want to encourage you to do the same: make space for the moments that truly matter. Not the deadlines, not the checklists, but the connection, joy, and rest that recharge your soul and set you up for success in the new year.
Here are a few actionable steps you can take to create that space for yourself:
Schedule Time for Rest and Joy
Block off time in your calendar for activities that light you up. Whether it’s meeting a friend for lunch, taking your kids to see holiday lights, or curling up with a good book, treat this time as non-negotiable. If it’s on your calendar, it’s easier to honor.
Action Step: Open your calendar right now and block off at least two hours this week for something that makes you happy.
Practice Grace Over Perfection
The holidays can bring a lot of pressure to do everything perfectly. But here’s the truth: the people who matter most don’t care about perfect gifts, perfect meals, or perfect plans. They care about you. Give yourself grace to let go of unrealistic expectations.
Action Step: Write down three things you can let go of this season. Maybe it’s hosting the perfect party or saying yes to every invitation. Simplify where you can.
Reconnect With Your “Why”
Why do you work so hard? Why do you hustle for your goals? Chances are, it’s to create a life you love—one that’s rich with meaningful moments. Don’t lose sight of that bigger picture.
Action Step: Take 10 minutes to journal about what success means to you and how you want to feel going into the new year. Let this guide your priorities.
Plan for the New Year With Intention
Taking time to rest and recharge now sets you up to hit the ground running in January. But don’t wait until the new year to start thinking about your goals. Use this reflective time to consider what you want to achieve and how you can align your life and business with your values.
Action Step: Choose one small goal to focus on for January and write down three steps you can take to move toward it.
The Power of Presence
It’s not about perfection—it’s about presence. The moments of joy and connection you create now will not only make this holiday season more meaningful but will also give you the clarity and energy you need to take on the new year.
So here’s your gentle nudge: Give yourself permission to pause. To breathe. To make space for what truly matters. You deserve it.
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