There was a time when I thought being available 24/7 made me a great agent.
I thought it meant I was committed. Responsive. The kind of agent clients rave about.
But in reality?
It just made me exhausted.
I was replying to 10 PM texts with one eye open, skipping meals between showings, and saying yes to everything—even when it made no sense. (Including a listing appointment where the seller’s dog wouldn’t stop licking my ankles. Yes, that actually happened.)
Here’s what I had to learn the hard way:
Boundaries aren’t about saying no. They’re about saying yes—to the business you actually want to build.
Because you didn’t leave a 9–5 just to feel like you’re working 24/7.
You didn’t start your own business to burn yourself out.
And you definitely didn’t dream of “success” that quietly drains you.
The turning point for me came when I started creating what I now call Energetic Architecture—a structure for building boundaries that support your nervous system, your goals, and your life.
I shared the full framework on my latest Align With Me episode, where I walk through what I call the 5 Es of Energetic Architecture. (Catch the replay here.)
These aren’t fluffy mindset tips.
These are the actual shifts I made that helped me move from reactive and overextended…
to clear, confident, and fully in charge.
Because stepping into CEO energy isn’t about hustle.
It’s about capacity.
The ability to lead your business without losing yourself in the process. ✨
And if you’re ready to stop building a business that burns you out, I’d love to support you.
Inside The Elevated Agent Collective, we help women like you put real boundaries in place—with systems, scripts, and support that actually work for your life.
Explore the Collective here and let’s build a business that supports your ambition and your well-being.
You deserve to lead like a CEO—not just work like one. ✨
